Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Mothers Day

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Jenn wrote this... it's very compelling! Read on!

April 21st, my mother was in a major accident. She was traveling home from Ottawa Canada. She was on the highway, going about 90-100 KMH; she can fore see the curve and guard rail quite far ahead, and notices the gravel along the side of the road. The next immediate thing she remembers is waking up, seeing her car moving close to the edge of the cliff fast, she immediately tries to stop, but the car just turns into the cliff, she then stops on the brake, puts the car in park and pulls the emergency brake on. She looks around and in astonishment, notices the car she borrowed to make a trip she has made a thousand times, is totaled. But how? She has no memory. Minutes later as she is sobbing, a fireman that had been working in the area was at her side. He asks her is she is ok and tells her he could feel and hear the impact of the accident 2 miles down the road. She asks what accident and then shortly realizes it must have been her. He informs her that she hit the guard rail and 10 posts lifting them out of the ground that were holding the guard rail. He can't believe she is alive.

My mother was in a major head on collision and was not helped out of the car, was not put in a neck brace, was not put on a flat board, walked into the ambulance, and had her purse recovered with medications in it and never asked, were you drinking, on drugs? Thankfully no one else was on the road and hurt.

The Sunday before this my mother went to church and felt a urge to light a candle (catholic belief), she did feeling a little odd, she has lit a candle, but always at her own will, this time she was pushed. I told my mother and Mat's great Aunt agrees with me; SOMEONE WAS IN THAT CAR WITH HER!!

Now the questions remain; why the urge to light the candle, why the black out? Why did she wake up just in time and know exactly what to do with out feeling sleepy and confused until after the car is at a complete stop? Why is there no bruising? And why the FUCK didn't the ambulance do their job and take her to the freaking hospital?

I began to sob minutes after getting all the details realizing I seriously almost lost my mother, I looked up at my husband in astonishment realizing he had felt this feeling of dread and horror, but for him, he did loose his mother, I asked him, how? How did you deal with that? I can't deal with it now and she is still here? All he said in soft words and sad eyes was "yes, she is still here". I knew then that he is STILL dealing with loosing his mother.

This event has shaken me and my husband, my mom and dad are all we have left. We think our parents are invincible, that they will never die until they get to old, decrepit and annoy you to death. You are not suppose to loose your parents until then. Why does it seem harder to me to loose my mother from a far then when I was sitting beside her in her living room as a young 19 year old? Maturity? Who knows,

Conclusion: Mother's day is coming up; please all that still have mothers or mother in laws, or even mother figures, take them in your arms and realize they are not invincible, they are not immortal, they are precious and few. Tell them how much you truly, need them, love them, appreciate them, and then show them!

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Este nina es muy interesante!


Here are the lyrics... SO CUTE!!!

Hey, Jude, don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better

Hey, Jude, don't be afraid
You were made to go out and get her
The minute you let her under your skin
Then you begin to make it better.

And any time you feel the pain, hey, Jude, refrain
Don't carry the world upon your shoulders
Well don't you know that its a fool who plays it cool
By making his world a little colder

Hey, Jude! Don't let her down
You have found her, now go and get her
Remember, to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better.

So let it out and let it in, hey, Jude, begin
You're waiting for someone to perform with
And don't you know that it's just you, hey, Jude,
You'll do, the movement you need is on your shoulder

Hey, Jude, don't make it bad
Take a sad song and make it better
Remember to let her into your heart
Then you can start to make it better

Tengo que ponerse contento. POR FAVOR!!!

No quiero mas de impaciente y furioso.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Maybe you don't need to change the oil -- yet

This is an article from CNN.com… well worth reading! Might even save you some coin.

 

I have been in the auto repair industry since 1972. Hmmmm, a simple calculation of the math illustrates that I have been in car repair for, uh, well, let's not go there. It makes me depressed. You do the math and keep it to yourself. At any rate, enough about my mid life crisis. Let's talk about oil change intervals.

For years the accepted oil change interval (as per the carmakers) has been every three months or 3,000 miles, whichever comes first. Why? Because the oils of yesterday degraded and broke down when left in the crankcase environment for longer than the prescribed interval.

The combination of heat, friction, and the oil oxidizing over time resulted in an unholy clothing of the engine's internal parts called sludge.

As an automotive machinist for a good part of my career, I can tell you that sludge is an engine killer. Sludge takes a greasy, cake-like oily form and plugs oil return passages and acts like a sponge and soaks up good oil to grow its grotesque form starving the engine of vital lubricants. Once established, engine heat crystallizes it to a hardened rock of ughhhhhh, I have spent many an hour scraping and yes, sometimes chiseling established sludge from the inside of an engine before performing a machining operation on it!

As the machinist prepares to perform a machine operation on a cylinder head, crankshaft, engine block or the likes he/she must clean their work meticulously before performing the prescribed operation. If the sludge is not cleaned properly, the result will be a failed engine.

Why this lesson about sludge? Because without clean good quality oil in your car's engine, it will develop sludge and cause premature engine failure.

Now more than ever before, vehicle engines operate at high heat and close tolerances. The reason for this is the Federal Emissions mandates the government has imposed on the carmakers.

Vehicles have to emit a smidgeon of the tailpipe emissions they did a decade ago. Carmakers have risen to this occasion by increasing combustion chamber temps with higher compression engines, running leaner fuel systems, adjusting ignition timing for optimum emissions, narrowing cooling system water jackets, and tightening engine oil tolerances.

All this makes for hotter running engines that emit less tailpipe emissions. Putting these demands on engines requires a lubricant that can stand up to this harsh environment.

Hence, petroleum companies' work hand in hand with carmakers to develop engine lubricants to meet the requirements and demands of a particular powerplant, still delivering the advertised horsepower and torque output that consumers expect. Research and development between carmakers and petroleum companies has resulted in improved engine lubricants that properly lubricate your vehicle's engine as well as keep the inside clean of sludge buildup, and can go longer between oil changes!

A few years back, GM introduced a system called the OLM (Oil Life Monitor) system. This system had been in testing since 1984 and actually was put into some Buicks on a test basis. The goal of this system? To extend oil change intervals and attain bragging rights to having a more maintenance-free vehicle. The OLM monitors crankcase temp, moisture, and combustion chamber events (this represents the actual work the engine is doing while in operation).

By closely monitoring these elements of engine operation the system can measure the serviceable life of the oil to within 10 percent. After officially introducing the OLM with virtually no engine failures attributed it the OLM, GM changes their service recommendations to what they called an "Enhanced Maintenance Schedule." With the Enhanced Schedule, the motorist need only follow the dictates of the OLM and have other scheduled services done at prescribed intervals.

Ford Motor Company has followed GM into the extended oil change interval march. Four months ago (March of this year) Ford announced that they are revising engine oil change intervals to every 7,500 miles.

Ford told The Associated Press last year it was increasing the recommended time between oil changes because extensive testing indicated oils now were better and improved engines operate at higher a temperature which helps burn off the gunk in oil. The automaker also cited the financial and environmental benefits of the adjusted standards.

Yes oil is much better than it used to be, engines are better protected with today's new lubricants but the same old logic still applies to the oil filter: always use a good quality filter when having the engine oil changed.

The filter is the storehouse for dirt in the engine and when it doesn't do its job, the engine suffers internally. When dirt and grit are allowed to circulate over, within and on the engine bearing surfaces, cylinder walls, crankshafts, piston rings, camshafts and virtually all metal mating surfaces, they are damaged resulting in wider oil tolerances, lowered oil pressure and ultimately premature engine failure.

While I concur with R&D results over the years with respect to oil change intervals, I am still squeamish about leaving petroleum-based oil in an engine for 7,500 miles. I guess I just know too much based on personal experience.

So while yes, I have revised my thinking regarding extending oil change intervals:

Here are my revised oil change recommendations: change regular petroleum based oils every 4,000 to 5,000 miles and synthetic every 5,000 to 7,000 miles.

There, those of you that for years have criticized me as being in the back pocket of petroleum companies for recommending 3,000 mile oil changes, are you happy now?

 

Monday, April 07, 2008

Another byte?!

So I'm sitting in a common area on campus admiring my laptop when I hear the distinct sound of some stupid fuck chewing with his mouth open... Normally this does not bother me, but when you are 30 feet away in a noisy room and I can hear you like you were sitting next to me... SHUT YOUR FKN MOUTH! You disgusting fuck! AND to make it worse he's sitting with a woman that looks old enough to be his mother and she's eating just as bad... at least she has her fkn mouth closed but she ate a medium sized bowl of pasta then a quarter of a pizza... now seriously... with the weight problem that plagues our nation you would think that someone would alert her to the issues here.... but no one says a damn thing and she continues to eat. I have to leave... before I fkn vomit! I'd like to just take this laptop and shove it down his throat 12 to 16 inches... then say to him, "Byte this you nasty fuck! You should be ashamed to eat in public"