My oldest daughter and I sat alone last night watching a movie. She has never been one to give me hugs or kisses. So when I put my arm around her last night I honestly expected her to squeal and slide further away. She totally didn't! She put her head on my chest and we finished watching the movie. It was awesome. I hope that it indicates that she is feeling closer to me. She has also finally gotten to a point that she will come to me and ask me questions instead of going straight to her mom (which she normally does). She seems to be much more comfortable around me. It's only taken me 9 freakin months!
Today I stayed home from work with the boy. I let him play on the computer for a while and then asked him to go get dressed and do his chores (cleaning his room and making his bed). I leave him alone thinking that he might be doing what he's been asked... about 10 minutes later I hear him moving around and thought that I'd go check to make sure he's working. I go in his room and he's got his wanker out and he's dancing around the room. When I asked him what he was doing he said he was cleaning his room. haha, right... So I asked him if he would like to tell me the truth. He then proceded to tell me that he was cleaning his room. Uh, NO! So I put him in a time out for 5 minutes (for lying to me and for him to think about what he was doing) when I release him from his time out he tells me that he was trying to see if he could get his boxers off by putting his wanker thru the little opening. I damn near hit him. I had a talk with him about being appropriate but I don't think he quite gets it. What the hell should I do?
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