K so she walks by my desk at work to talk with someone else and doesn't even glance my way or say hello, still no email and still no sign of life on the other side. Do I worry now or wait... Hmmm that is the ultimate burning question. I do not want to wait for inevitably it postpones your advance into the future. Time will pass you by and your still stagnantly sitting there doing nothing. I do not wish that to happen. I want to make this relationship work. I want a relationship, and would prefer it be with her. Why is it when someone is interested in me that they do not respond to my inquiries. They send me an email, I send one back and never get a reply. WTF! What is it that I do wrong, or is it something that I'm doing? Maybe it's not really or just that, if not I cannot deduce an alternative. I feel this gnawing ache to email her and ask her what she is thinking and how she would like to proceed. At this point I am so doubtful that she wants to that it scares me a little.
K- so I just talked to another co-worker of mine and she suggested this: write an email apologizing for being a little pushy about lunch yesterday, then DON"T send it but rather call her and apologize in person. The email is just practice to get out what I really want to say, so here goes...
I just wanted to apologize for being too aggressive when asking you to lunch yesterday. I didn't even realize that I was until you said something about it. For that I am also regretful. My last intention in the world is to upset you, as I know you have enough on your plate already. I am deeply sorry if I offended you or upset you in any way. Please accept my apology.
--- well I went ahead and sent that to her. I eagerly await a reply, hoping that I get one that is.
Whoo hooo, got a reply,
you did not offend or upset me :) no worries, k? I'd tell you if I felt pushed or you made me mad or anything.
so that''s good I spose. That makes me a little more curious as to wtf is really goin' on and why she ignored me this morning... hmm
More laterz
K- so I just talked to another co-worker of mine and she suggested this: write an email apologizing for being a little pushy about lunch yesterday, then DON"T send it but rather call her and apologize in person. The email is just practice to get out what I really want to say, so here goes...
I just wanted to apologize for being too aggressive when asking you to lunch yesterday. I didn't even realize that I was until you said something about it. For that I am also regretful. My last intention in the world is to upset you, as I know you have enough on your plate already. I am deeply sorry if I offended you or upset you in any way. Please accept my apology.
--- well I went ahead and sent that to her. I eagerly await a reply, hoping that I get one that is.
Whoo hooo, got a reply,
you did not offend or upset me :) no worries, k? I'd tell you if I felt pushed or you made me mad or anything.
so that''s good I spose. That makes me a little more curious as to wtf is really goin' on and why she ignored me this morning... hmm
More laterz
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