Saturday, January 01, 2005
I had pleasant dreams and slept very well last night, THANKS to ICE! Who, by the way, was makin out with another woman, Multiple times. OMG talk about HOT! I am so proud of you! That by the way is NOT cheating... It's only cheating if your spouse does not approve. And believe ME the spouse approved of THIS! But, that does bring up an interesting point... and I want an answer to this question from everyone who reads this. My question is this: What would cause someone to cheat on their partner?
Please, Post a comment or click here to email me. I seriously would like an answer from everyone.
I have never cheated (nor will I EVER) on a gf or my spouse, and cannot see any valid reason to do so. Trust me, I was tempted many times, it happens when you go home and want to vomit everytime you look at what is laying next to you, or when it's sprawled across a three person couch and there is no room for you to sit down. TRUST ME, I was tempted. I recently discovered that someone cheated on someone else who cheated on them too. I must assume (although I don't know) that the relationship had deteriorated enough to 'warrant' the neglect of commitment. If that's the case, why not break up, separate, divorce, or whatever the FUCK you have to do to get OUT of the situation that your in and THEN, and ONLY THEN, go fuck someone else. Until then, it is my opinion, that you are in a 'contract' that shall not be broken. The amount of trust and respect that one loses, when cheating is brought into the picture, is not worth the small gratification of sex right now. Or is it? I have yet to talk to anyone who has cheated and still thinks it's worth it. I do however, believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. And I say that because there are many boundaries in life that should never be crossed. One of those is cheating, once that boundary is crossed it usually becomes ignored or shadowed in self gratification and therefore it is easier to cross again. Much like murder, once you have killed one person, why not just one more? I'll tell you why, because no matter what you think about it, if you do it, you are a peice of shit and you will never be able to rebuild that firm boundary that once stood there. You will forever be a peice of shit. Much the same with cheating, maybe not that intensity, but you see where I'm coming from.
So please, answer the question. (except for Double D, thanks)
I'll have...
I wish life were as easy as ordering from a menu... although some have difficulty deciding, if you don't like what you get, order something else next time. It really seems that easy. Why is life any different. But, at this point, if I were to place my order, it would be something like this.
Waiter: I am Asslol, and I'll be your waiter today, would you like to try the special, 'cream of ass' soup?
Me: Um, No. Let's see here, I think I would like to order the 16 oz steak with a side of 'just tell me what the fuck is goin on' and a tall glass of 'I prefer the truth' please. And then maybe a slice of 'Fuck Off & Die' for dessert also, yes, that will do. Thank you.
Waiter: Sir, would you also like to try the 'rip my heart out with a spoon' salad, it is wonderful today?
Me: No, thank you, I had that already and found it disgusting and repulsive.
I feel this situation is alot like a mirage when you are about to die of thirst and exhaustion in the desert, and seeing a mirage of an oasis. Oh yes, you WANT the mirage and the feeling of reward of having the mirage and you desire the refreshment. A mirage that we'll call mirage #78. You can't touch the mirage. You can't fondle the mirage. You can't EVEN take the mirage out as FRIENDS! The mirage wants to chat with you online and the occasional breif face to face conversation. I am not ready to be passed off as the watcher of the mirage, just...
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